Monday, April 22, 2013

Knowing how to ... expressing yourself appropriately


Having an everyday conversation in English may be easy or doable.


But how do we behave in specific situations when we need to express anger, annoyance, dissatisfaction, disappointment, polite disagreement, persuasion and so on?

Here is an example of a typical "How to" moment that applies to any language.

How to pretend you're busy ... and look annoyed in the process



 
There are some other very important skills that we all need to know how to do in another language:


  1. making suggestions
  2. making a point
  3. disagreeing
  4. expressing uncertainty
  5. taking offence
  6. extending a conversation
  7. closing topics
  8. expressing likes and dislikes
  9. responding to compliments
  10. being sarcastic


Any others? Post your suggestions in the Comments box.


Here is another classic clip that shows how to or how not to react under pressure:


 
The video goes even further by showing how to be politically correct and how to guarantee your rights.

By politically correct, we refer to avoiding sexist and/or racist slurs, being respectful but assertive. 
So another great post would be to talk about terms used to refer to skin color (especially when referring to darker-skinned people) and socioeconomic status

Suggestions for more videos and or examples of these situations, post your suggestions in the Comments box. 

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Is life wysiwyg or wysiwydg?




This is a sort of sneak peek at Internet English, which is so vast and even more unpredictable than the original language itself. The focus is on those abbreviated words that become words in themselves sometimes, as we will see below. 

Don't get me wrong: I am not trying to be philosophical or a philosopher of the sort. But if you see things in a certain light, it will certainly alter your vision in one way or the other.
 
Do you think life is wysiwyg or wysiwydg?

WYSIWYG - What you see is what you get
WYSIWYDG - What you see is what you don't get

In other words, what I really would like to know is ... 
 
Is life a bed of roses or a sea of thorns?

How demanding/fussy/picky/harsh are you?

Communication via texting and the internet is basically filled with these abbreviations and highly creative symbols to express their thoughts
Some of the selected texts reflect 3 basic things

ATM - AT THE MOMENT (AUTOMATED TELLER MACHINE OR AUTOMATED BANKING MACHINE)
BRB - BE RIGHT BACK
BTW - BY THE WAY
ETA - ESTIMATED TIME OF ARRIVAL
ETD - ESTIMATED TIME OF DEPARTURE
FAQ - FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
FYI - FOR YOUR INFORMATION
IIRC - IF I REMEMBER CORRECTLY
IMO - IN MY (HUMBLE) OPINION
IMHO
LOL - LAUGHING OUT LOUD
LMAO - LAUGHING MY ASS OFF
LMFAO
TYVM - THANK YOU VERY MUCH
DIY - DO IT YOURSELF
TGIF - THANK GOD IT'S FRIDAY

IF YOU DON'T USE IT, YOU LOSE IT

WE ARE IN DIRE STRAITS = WE ARE IN TROUBLE = WE ARE IN A SITUATION
DIRE = GRAVE, SERIOUS
STRIKE = ATTACK, HIT
LUCKY STRIKE = LUCKY SHOT, LUCKY HIT
ON STRIKE = STOP WORKING
HE DOESN'T STRIKE ME AS A VIOLENT PERSON

Ask Britney!





Let's hear an acronym-based story

 

Net acronyms


Would you be able to write a novel with just emoticons?

Saturday, April 13, 2013

Try something new - for a change



So much to do - and so much time.


Think of how many things you can do or start doing in 30 days. Here are a few that may have come to mind: 


finish a project
lose or gain weight
travel
get a job
take a long vacation or go on a long vacation
do nothing
read a book
staycation
learn the basics of a language
study abroad or do an exchange program
learn how to cook something fancy (sophisticated), juicy, succulent, greasy, fatty, exquisite
spend all your money or go on a splurge go/a shopping spree
go into debt = be in the red
get drunk every day (get cirrhosis in the process)
do something totally different e.g. go bungee jumping
read a physical activity manual
sleep a lot like an animal in the winter = hibernate /hai-ba-neit/
play an instrument by ear
play things by ear = improvise
don't worry about anything = don't you worry 'bout a thing
live the language
read a music sheet or a score
become a talented person
live in a country that is completely different from yours
appreciate the landscape/the seascape

This guy, has some suggestions on the same topic:




Doing something new, embarking on a new project or challenge involves courage.

As our guru says,


a long journey begins with a small step

While we're at it, ...
Courage involves commitment.
You have to be committed = you have to stick to it = you have to be disciplined = you have to be motivated = you have to be devoted =you have to be determined = you have to be driven

New things are challenging, you might have to live without some things for a while.

Question: What is something you can’t live without? 
soda pop or fizzy drinks
soft drinks (as opposed to hard drinks or alcoholic drinks)
“celeb” gossip
cancer-causing = cancerous foods or products

an addiction
an addictive product
being addicted to something or someone
a spoonful of sugar


Just know that there will be ...

  • benefits and losses
  • pros and cons
  • advantages and disadvantages
  • pluses and minuses
  • ups and downs
  • wins and losses
  • gains and drawbacks

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

What kings and civil unions can't afford


Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 - What Kings and Civil unions can’t afford


Did you know that the word “throne” can also be used colloquially to mean “toilet seat” and that this has been so since 1922?

But on a more serious note, when we think of the word "king", we associate with ...
crown
throne
empire - emperor
conquer- conqueror
kingdom
nobility
power
castle
royal robe
subjects
prince

What else would you add to the list?


The figure of the king evokes power, dominion, and the idea that they can have whatever and they want at their beckon and call. But apparently thete is ONE thing they can't have that we, peasants all CAN:


Some impressions held about the song and about related questions:

Happiness is from inside
Happiness comes from within
We don't need a lot of/loads of/tons of/rivers of/money to buy happiness or to find real love
You need to have sufficient maturity to have a relationship
You need to be mature enough to live/experience a relationship



We also learned that 

You can have sexual relations, but what lasts longer is a relationship
We often refer to a simple naive kind of affection between two people as called puppy love
If you are completely in awe or completely stupefied at something, you might say that the situation is mental (crazy = insane)
It is paramount to have somebody to be attached/bonded/connected to, not a person who is sticky or clingy (almost needy)


How about this: US Supreme Court Judges have classified marriages into two types: full and skimmed? What and why exactly?

The Domestic Marriage Act is the latest controversy to wash across the States. Same-sex marriages, marriage equality, what's it all about, for crying our loud?

 Talking about the issue has raised some language to take care of and use more often in speaking: 

  1. some thing we have to get used to seeing
  2. even my teenage daughters find it strange/awkward/weird
  3. we can call someone’s attention to the fact/we can draw someone’s attention to the fact
  4. seeing same-sex couples holding hands
  5. it’s a common mistake not just in …
  6. it’s wrong to force someone to agree
  7. they make the same mistake every time there is a controversial issue
  8. authorities don’t invest in primary education
  9. both sides are discriminating, anyway
  10. we shouldn’t meddle in other people’s affairs (to meddle = to interfere)
  11. they preach freedom but don’t allow you to have that freedom
  12. traditionally each sex has a particular role in a relationship
  13. you end up feeding the preconceived notion/prejudice





Friday, April 5, 2013

It's not much what you know but how you react


The topic, based on the FIRST question below, offered us many valuable lessons

What are you passionate about?
What are you motivated by?
What puts you at ease?
What moves you?
What drives you?

Your biggest passions
Your newest passions
Your fervent passions

Dancing was one of the passions that came up in the discussions.

We can even make a link between Learning to dance and Learning a language:
Both can be difficult at first, but you have to stick at them.

LANGUAGE NOTE: When we stick to something, we keep doing it until we improve, we persist to the very end to achieve our goal.

What I love most about dance classes is the atmosphere
Posh or high class restaurants are famous for their sophisticated ambiance (the atmosphere in a restaurant)

Many times we put off our passions or stop pursuing them because of professional and personal commitments and responsibilties,translated into ONE word, or the lack of it: TIME

So the question that we can ask ourselves is . . .
Why not take up classes again? = Why not resume classes?
Why not get back to doing what we really love?

LANGUAGE NOTE: The word RESUME looks just like a word in Portuguese, only with a DIFFERENT MEANING:

To resume = to start again
Resumir > To summarize

We can sometimes find new passions by experimenting something new:
I tried surfing once but my balance got the better of me. Even so, I am crazy about surfing now.

LANGUAGE NOTE: If something gets the better of you, then it dominates or puts you in a losing or inferior position.

There are some people who are still looking for true passion in life:
I haven’t found what I’m looking for (Thanks Bono Vox :-)O:-))

Then there those people who are Multi-passion:
I’m most passionate about . . .

So what does this whole thing about passion have to do with a job interview?

The worst thing about interviews is . . .
Being under observation consciously or unconsciously (knowingly or unknowingly)
Having to show your skills in a short space/period of time

A word to the wise:
Sometimes the answer is not important but how you react to certain situations.

Are you . . .
broad-minded or narrow-minded?
stubborn or flexible?

In interviews,
Are you always straightforward (frank)?
Do you tend to be more serious than usual?
Do you try to show off when there is a group activity
Do you take the lead when it comes to solving a problem?
Do you admit to being a perfectionist, even if it might be considered a sign of weakness?
If you were looking for another job and someone spilled the beans to your manager, what would you do to remedy the situation?
LANGUAGE NOTE: when you spill the beans, you reveal information before the appropriate time or you spoil a surprise.
Do the interviewer's comments leave a mark on you?
Do you try make a lasting impression on your assessor?

QUESTION: Which sounds more positive/negative: leave a mark or leave a lasting impression?

LANGUAGE NOTE:
an interviewer
an interviewee = a candidate = an applicant

PRONUNCIATION: Words that end in -ate usually pronounce this syllable like "it":

Who did it? CAN did it. /candidate/

considerate /con-si-drit/ or /con-si-da-rit/
literate /litrit/ or /li-ta-rit/
intermediate /in-ta-mee-jit/
moderate /maw-drit/
affectionate /a-fek-sha-nit/

Heineken launched a campaign for an opening for intern. The video proves some valuable things about the workplace and the job market

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j5Ftu3NbivE&feature=youtube_gdata_player

What surprised you most?

Is this going to become a norm in recruitment processes?

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Do you remember what I asked you?


Here are some things that can help jog our memories: 
What do they remind you of?




OCD- Obsessive Compulsive DisorderADD - Attention Deficit Disorder
What do you call a person who always complains about things or is never happy with a situation?

picky = finicky = choosy =captious = whimsical = fussy = fault-finding
We all have whims or manias or eccentricities that seem like 

demandingover-demanding

Here is a look at some wonderful examples of language:

She’s competing with someone for the jobI have problems studying grammarHave you already worked ….What are you living for?What do you do for a living? = What do you do?I was like a self-made womanself-employedentrepreneurmicro-entrepreneurwhat are friends for?I invited them to visit/see/get to know the citydifficult to adaptI’ve been living here for ten months
I began/started to workYou’re married to the same personWhat do you think about your marriage so far? = How do you like your marriage so far?What is your impression of being married so far?

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